Learn to live like God, that involves talking and thinking like him concerning everything, person or situation. He paid the same amount for everybody in the world: the blood of his only begotten son, meaning he valued everybody equally: the ‘aboki’, school teacher, ol’ grandma, even those that are yet to know or believe in him, he thought there was something special or of value about everyone.
You ought to train yourself to think like that about people. If God thought they were special and of value, then they are special and of value no matter how annoying, unbearable and evil they may seem to you. Treat people special, think the best about others, especially fellow believers, resist the temptation to be among the bunch of folks that criticize other Christians based on doctrinal differences, infact resist the thought and train yourself with all patience and dilligence to really LIKE everybody you meet especially other believers, Galatians 6:10.
Don’t give yourself an excuse not to express love, you have God’s love in you already meaning it’s already too late for you to decide not to show love, use God’s love given to you effectively and esteem people in your heart and mind.
This is God’s desire for you and this will cause you to live an excellent life, making excellent decisions always, Philippians 1:9-10.
and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.