True success is measured by direct influence in the lives of other human beings, so in other words you are not a success untill you help someone else become a success while you move higher in the chart room of the successful, to make it easier: you are not rich untill you make someone else rich while you increase in your financial ability.
God called the Christian to help other people, he fashioned every Christian for that:
It is God himself who has made us what we are and given us new lives from Christ Jesus; and long ages ago he planned that we should spend these lives in helping others
(The Living Bible)
This scripture tells us succintly that God gave every Christian a new life with the intent that they would walk in the light of this new life and as a result of it help other people possess new lives and thus walk in the light of their possession.
(He called us to preach the gospel to the poor, heal the sick, raise the dead and set the captives free and he also called us to produce and maintain the development of the society where we live).
If you are yet uncertain about your purpose or what you are called to do, then look out for a human need and make plans to meet that need with the idea gotten from the reservoir of your spirit. Be useful in your environment; helping other people live better lives. If you continues in such a path, you would increase in your influence for the Lord and just walk right into your destiny joyously and ‘stress-less-ly’.